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		<title>Music and Fetish collide&#8230;again</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 21:19:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Speedoguru</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In a First, Metal Queen Lita Ford Breaks Song from New Album on Leading Fetish Site Stockroom.com LOS ANGELES&#8211;(BUSINESS WIRE)&#8211;In an innovative music marketing move, heavy metal queen Lita Ford will release a single from “Wicked Wonderland,” her first album in 15 years, on Stockroom.com, the world&#8217;s leading fetish site, starting Monday, September 28th. The [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>In a First, Metal Queen Lita Ford Breaks Song from New Album on Leading Fetish Site Stockroom.com</em></p>
<p>LOS ANGELES&#8211;(<a href="http://www.businesswire.com/portal/site/google/?ndmViewId=news_view&amp;newsId=20090928005689&amp;newsLang=en">BUSINESS WIRE</a>)&#8211;In an innovative music marketing move, heavy metal queen Lita Ford will release a single from “Wicked Wonderland,” her first album in 15 years, on <a href="http://www.stockroom.com">Stockroom.com</a>, the world&#8217;s leading fetish site, starting Monday, September 28th. The album will be released and available for purchase at Amazon and at stores across the North America on October 6th.</p>
<p><div id="attachment_3999" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 212px"><img src="http://www.lustlovelatex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/lita-red-202x300.jpg" alt="Photo courtesy Stockroom.com" width="202" height="300" class="size-medium wp-image-3999" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Photo courtesy Stockroom.com</p></div>It is believed to be the first time an important music release has been launched through a website catering to the alternative fetish lifestyle.</p>
<p>Wicked Wonderland&#8217;s erotic song “Bed,” which explores themes of bondage, kink and power exchange in a strong and highly artistic style, will be available exclusively on Stockroom.com prior to the album&#8217;s release.</p>
<p>“My husband Jim Gillette and I have carved out our own path to develop a wonderful and close family life,” said Lita. “Though we&#8217;re a long-married couple, we both have very active imaginations, including being kinky with each other, and that&#8217;s what this album is about. It&#8217;s sort of a sexual autobiography. We&#8217;ve partnered up with Stockroom.com because it&#8217;s our favorite outfitter for kink products.”</p>
<p>While previewing “Bed,” fans of Lita and Stockroom will also be able to view and order from “Lita&#8217;s Collection” (stockroom.com/litaford/) special selection of some of the fetish gear that Lita and Jim have enjoyed, along with her personal choice of <a href="http://www.syren.com">Syren</a> Latex fashion styles.</p>
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		<title>Jasper Goodall: Poster Girl!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2009 13:46:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>3xL</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Electric Blue Gallery plays host to a collection of new works by the hugely influential graphic artist Jasper Goodall. Goodall rose to public attention with his style defining work for The Face magazine in 2000-2003 influencing a generation of illustrators and helping pave the way for illustration&#8217;s resurgence and reinvention in recent years. Here Goodall [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="size-full wp-image-1958 alignleft" title="jasper-goodall-poster-girl" src="http://www.lustlovelatex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/jasper-goodall-poster-girl.jpg" alt="jasper-goodall-poster-girl" width="345" height="500" /><a href="http://www.electricbluegallery.com/index.php?id=43">Electric Blue Gallery</a> plays host to a collection of new works by the hugely influential graphic artist <a href="http://www.jaspergoodall.com/">Jasper Goodall</a>.</p>
<p>Goodall rose to public attention with his style defining work for The Face magazine in 2000-2003 influencing a generation of illustrators and helping pave the way for illustration&#8217;s resurgence and reinvention in recent years. Here Goodall presents for the first time, his first solo show of personal work in a gallery environment.</p>
<p>Entitled &#8216;Poster Girl&#8217; the images have a strong nod toward fetishism, lots of shiny rubber and gloopy gloss, and a sense of anonymity through the use of masks. Goodall explains <em>“I’m intrigued by the way people perceive the body, the way it looks wrapped in shiny rubber. The way it clings to the human form and makes people look super-real. There are all sorts of connotations and references to the subliminal of shininess and lubrication, and it all comes back to sexuality.”</em></p>
<p>The show will run from the 6th February till the beginning of March 2009.</p>
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		<title>Calling Latex Webmasters and Mistresses!</title>
		<link>http://www.lustlovelatex.com/05/calling-latex-webmasters-and-webmistresses/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 10:43:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>3xL</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As you know, I&#8217;m the founder of the LatexWiki &#8211; a commercial free latex fetish encyclopedia that anyone can edit. I have been running and promoting this project for the last two years. During that time the LatexWiki has grown into a valuable latex fetish resource. A resource there is worth sharing with your fellow [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.latexwiki.com/index.php?title=Main_Page"><img class="alignright" src="http://www.latexwiki.com/images/d/d3/LatexWiki_banner_1.jpg" alt="" width="140" height="220" /></a>As you know, I&#8217;m the founder of the <a href="http://www.latexwiki.com/index.php?title=Main_Page">LatexWiki</a> &#8211; a commercial free latex fetish encyclopedia that anyone can edit. I have been running and promoting this project for the last two years. During that time the LatexWiki has grown into a valuable latex fetish resource. A resource there is worth sharing with your fellow latex fetishists!</p>
<p>So please help me spread the word by adding a LatexWiki link to your website. Download a banner on the <a href="http://www.latexwiki.com/index.php?title=LatexWiki_-_the_free_latex_fetish_encyclopedia:Site_support">LatexWiki banner page</a>. Link it to: http://www.latexwiki.com</p>
<p>As a sign of gratitude, I&#8217;ll post your link below. Send me <a href="http://www.lustlovelatex.com/author/3xl/">email</a> with your URL. This offer is valid during February 2009.</p>
<p><strong>Please visit the following LatexWiki supporters:</strong></p>
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<li><a href="http://www.honeyhair.net">Honeyhair.net</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.atomage.co.uk">Atomage.co.uk</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.fetishground.fr">Fetishground.fr</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.latexmaus.com">Latexmaus.com</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.latexnews.com">Latexnews.com</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.alterpic.com">Alterpic.com</a></li>
<li><a href="http://alterpic.blogspot.com">Alterpic.blogspot.com</a></li>
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		<title>Early Kink: Hawaii Five-O</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 08:12:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>MissFuzzyBunny</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[American (and English) television from the &#8217;60s and &#8217;70s has an awful lot to answer for in creating a generation of perverts! Many of us can cite early viewings of Batman and The Avengers as major influences in our fetish development, but other popular programs and movies also provided glimpses  into a perverted world of possibilities. [...]]]></description>
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<p>American (and English) television from the &#8217;60s and &#8217;70s has an awful lot to answer for in creating a generation of perverts! Many of us can cite early viewings of Batman and The Avengers as major influences in our fetish development, but other popular programs and movies also provided glimpses  into a perverted world of possibilities.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think I ever saw the first Hawaii Five-O episode, but the sexy total enclosure scene was pivotal to lots of other rubberists. The clip above is surely one of the kinkiest scenes with its heavy rubber suit and awesome headgear! It seems almost inconceivable to me that this was just an innocent plot device, its fetish and BDSM elements are just so pronounced. Awesome!</p>
<p>[With a tip of the hat to Pompey Daz over at the <a href="http://fetlife.com/" target="_blank">Fet Life</a> community for finding this clip.]</p>
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		<title>Christmas Gift Ideas for your Kinky Boyfriend!</title>
		<link>http://www.lustlovelatex.com/02/christmas-gift-ideas-for-your-kinky-boyfriend/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2008 20:05:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>3xL</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Better naughty, than nice! Here is my version of the guys latex Christmas wish list 2008. 1: Easy access? Make him wear a latex kilt! 2: Leather ball gag &#8211; for quiet evenings. 3: Latex belts &#8211; looks cool with demin jeans. 4: Bedtime reading &#8211; Rubber Girl by William Doughty. 5: Latex catsuit with [...]]]></description>
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<p>Better naughty, than nice! Here is my version of the guys latex Christmas wish list 2008.</p>
<p><strong>1:</strong> <a href="http://www.ltvs24.com/xanario_pinfo.php?products_id=11612&amp;amp;ref=158">Easy access? Make him wear a latex kilt!</a><br />
<strong>2:</strong> <a href="http://www.ltvs24.com/xanario_pinfo.php?products_id=2882&amp;amp;ref=158">Leather ball gag &#8211; for quiet evenings.</a><br />
<strong>3:</strong> <a href="http://www.ltvs24.com/xanario_pinfo.php?products_id=13076&amp;ref=158">Latex belts &#8211; looks cool with demin jeans.</a><br />
<strong>4:</strong> <a href="http://astore.amazon.co.uk/3xl-21/detail/0352340878">Bedtime reading &#8211; Rubber Girl by William Doughty.</a><br />
<strong>5:</strong> <a href="http://www.ltvs24.com/xanario_pinfo.php?products_id=11742&amp;amp;ref=158">Latex catsuit with front and nipple zips.</a><br />
<strong>6:</strong> <a href="http://www.ltvs24.com/xanario_pinfo.php?products_id=13503&amp;amp;ref=158">Long sleeved latex shirt with buttons &#8211; by Simon O.</a><br />
<strong>7:</strong> Pjur Superhero glide with ginkgo extracts.<br />
<strong>8:</strong> <a href="http://www.ltvs24.com/xanario_pinfo.php?products_id=13130&amp;amp;ref=158">Stimulate his prostate with a G-spot massager from Nexus.</a><br />
<strong>9:</strong> <a href="http://www.ltvs24.com/xanario_pinfo.php?products_id=13787&amp;amp;ref=158">Fleshlight Pink Mini-Maid masturbation sleeve.</a><br />
<strong>10:</strong> <a href="http://www.ltvs24.com/xanario_pinfo.php?products_id=9034&amp;amp;ref=158">BlackStyle rubber harness for the slave boy.</a></p>
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		<title>To tell&#8230; or not to tell</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Sep 2005 19:47:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>3xL</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Coming out and telling others about your fetish is an issue that most fetishists have to deal with at some point of their life. But the fear of being weird and being rejected often keep people from coming out. There are many that are hiding in their closets throughout their whole lives and never tell [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Coming out and telling others about your fetish is an issue that most fetishists have to deal with at some point of their life. But the fear of being weird and being rejected often keep people from coming out. There are many that are hiding in their closets throughout their whole lives and never tell a soul. But the fact is &#8211; if you got a fetish, you got it for good, and it’s not likely to disappear or go away.</p>
<p>Reasons for telling<br />
A fetish can be a blessing for one person and a curse for another. When I first noticed my own fetish for latex. I did not know what to make of it. I thought it was very weird and found it strange that a material like latex turned me on. I felt different and very alone. So I kept my desires and feelings to myself and hid it from everybody else. I was not proud of being a slave to my fetish. Every time I gave in and followed my lust, I had to deal with the guilt afterwards. Being what you are is not always easy.</p>
<p>I tried to put my fetish away and forget all about it. I threw all my fetish items out and tried to think about different things, but my fetish kept coming back to haunt my fantasies and dreams.</p>
<p>It took me over fifteen years to realize the obvious; my fetish is a part of who I am and that I was not alone! There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a fetish. Lots of people have them. So why not get the most out of it and share your passion with the person you love?</p>
<p>How to tell<br />
In order to effectively share your passion with a non-fetishist you need to be in a state of mind where you are comfortable with your fetish. If you are not comfortable with your fetish, how can you expect your partner to be? What you need is high fetish self-esteem.<br />
<span id="more-1262"></span><br />
A good place to start is to talk to likeminded people. Look for communities, discussions boards, articles, and chat rooms related to your fetish. See if there are others that have coming out experiences and get some ideas. Talk to some of the regulars. Search for hints and ideas. Soon you will have a much better idea of the origin of your fetish and your self-esteem will grow.</p>
<p>Timing is another key factor. Only tell about your fetish if your relationship is healthy and functioning well. Don&#8217;t introduce your fetish if there exist problems in your relationship. Ask yourself this: is this really what I want and to what lengths do I want to go to get it?</p>
<p>Explaining your fetish<br />
Sooner or later you will be ready to come out and share you feelings and desires with your partner. There is so much you can tell about: how did it start, when you first noticed you fetish, how can your partner be involved. But what made all the difference for me was being able to give your partner an idea of where your fetish changes from being an inanimate object to an object of desire. It can be difficult to describe what’s so magical about a fetish you had for so many years, especially to people that don&#8217;t have a fetish themselves.</p>
<p>It’s my experience that the goal is to attach some feelings or senses to the object. So if you, like me, had a fetish for latex, explanations like this may work:</p>
<p>Touch: &#8220;When you are wearing tight latex over your skin it works like a sensitivity multiplier. Imagine if you are running a finger down a latex covered body part, the touch would be amplified by the elasticity of the latex fabric&#8221;.</p>
<p>Smell: &#8220;Latex is a natural product, made from the sap of rubber trees. Some types of latex (often the more expensive ones) have a pleasant smell of vanilla&#8221;.</p>
<p>Feel: &#8220;Latex is like a second layer of skin. It hugs you very tightly and gets the same temperature of your skin. It&#8217;s warm to touch and make you very sensitive to temperature changes&#8221;.</p>
<p>Sight: &#8220;When you polish Latex it becomes very shiny and the color becomes deep and sensual. It almost looks like the body has been painted. The contrast between highlight and shadow is very high and the curves of the body are empathized. So naturally this works as a powerful visual stimulant&#8221;.</p>
<p>Take it easy<br />
Go easy on your partner. Listen as much as you would like to be heard. Have respect for whatever he or she says. Don’t be disappointed if he or she doesn’t jump on the “bus” right away. Most people don&#8217;t, it&#8217;s only human to fear the new and unknown.</p>
<p>If you get rejection or your partner becomes upset, back off and give your partner some room and bring the subject up another time. Just try, try, and try again. The way I see it is very simple. Everybody just wants to be loved for who and what they are! So come out whoever you are!</p>
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		<title>Help, my partner has a fetish!</title>
		<link>http://www.lustlovelatex.com/10/help-my-partner-has-a-fetish-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Sep 2005 19:46:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>3xL</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everything was just fine, and then, like lightning from a clear sky, your partner jumps out of the &#8220;closet&#8221; and tells you about a life long fetish and wants you to take part in it. The world turns upside down, and all your partner can talk about is this &#8220;weird&#8221; thing. You might feel sad, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everything was just fine, and then, like lightning from a clear sky, your</p>
<p>partner jumps out of the &#8220;closet&#8221; and tells you about a life long fetish and</p>
<p>wants you to take part in it. The world turns upside down, and all your</p>
<p>partner can talk about is this &#8220;weird&#8221; thing. You might feel sad, surprised,</p>
<p>shocked or misled. Maybe you don&#8217;t know how to go about it, or maybe you even</p>
<p>feel disgusted by the thought. But fear not! If you keep an open mind and try</p>
<p>playing along, you will most likely end up with a very powerful tool that can</p>
<p>send your partner (and yourself!) straight to heaven.</p>
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<div class="title">Understanding fetishism</div>
<p>The word Fetish comes from past Shamanistic creeds, where the Shaman believed</p>
<p>some objects, such as rods, rocks, totems or amulets, could wield spiritual</p>
<p>and/or magical powers, those objects being called fetishes. Nowadays, the term</p>
<p>is used as a reference to the sexual power the fetish wields on the fetishist.</p>
<p>Fetishes come in many flavours and sizes. They all share the same mechanism,</p>
<p>the connection between the fetish object/material and pleasure. Such objects</p>
<p>could be long stockings, high heeled shoes, boots, rainwear, baloons or even</p>
<p>diapers. Materials could be silk, demi, leather, velvet or latex. Absolutely</p>
<p>anything can become a fetish.</p>
<p>There is nothing wrong with having a fetish or not. Fetishes are just part of</p>
<p>the person you love, just as loving you is. That&#8217;s part of what makes him/her</p>
<p>the person you love, and trying to remove or supress that is supressing a part</p>
<p>of his/her sexual nature, something that could be better used to your and your</p>
<p>partner&#8217;s pleasure.</p>
<p>Remember that coming out with a fetish is never easy for your partner. It is</p>
<p>usually something he/she could be very ashamed of, and due to religion or</p>
<p>morals, even consider something sinfull, when it&#8217;s just part of his/her sexual</p>
<p>nature and desires. The longer the relationship, the longer the time needed to</p>
<p>talk about it or accept it.</p>
<div class="title">Communication leads to understanding</div>
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<div class="posts"><strong>Three guidelines for a good conversation:</strong></div>
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<p><strong>1. Don&#8217;t take this personally!</strong></p>
<p>Your partner likes his/hers fetish, but he/she loves you. That&#8217;s why your</p>
<p>partner brought the subject up in the first place. If there were no love in</p>
<p>your relationship, he/she would just have left you without telling you about</p>
<p>it.</p>
<p><strong>2. Don&#8217;t jump to conclusions!</strong></p>
<p>Clear your mind of any prejudice that you might have. Your partner needs</p>
<p>understanding, not judgement. Listen with your love and your heart, not your</p>
<p>mind or your fears. Just because your partner has a fetish for latex, it does</p>
<p>not automatically mean that the two of you will have to engage in hardcore</p>
<p>BDSM play! And even if your partner does, he/she is not playing alone, and</p>
<p>it&#8217;s allways open for negotiation. If your relationship is worthy going on</p>
<p>with, your partner and his/her fantasies will be part of it. But it also</p>
<p>doesn&#8217;t mean you have to do all concessions.</p>
<p><strong>3. Always be open, positive, solution minded!</strong></p>
<p>Remember that your partner may find it difficult and awkward to be talking</p>
<p>about the subject. A good laugh can ease up a too serious conversation.</p>
<p><strong>4: Be adventurous! Be Brave!</strong></p>
<p>This just might be the best thing there ever happened to you. You may never</p>
<p>know what fun you are missing.</p></div>
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<p>Understanding your partner&#8217;s fetish preferences is important, so be sure to</p>
<p>stabilish a sincere and honest communication. Each should take their times to</p>
<p>absorb, because both of you, as well as your relationship, will be at a very</p>
<p>fragile moment, after exposing such deep and important facts. Be honest, be</p>
<p>brave, be understanding above all. Give yourself the time.</p>
<p>Pick a good place and time for a conversation, where you are sure that neither</p>
<p>of you will be distributed. Make sure that you have plenty of time and that</p>
<p>both of you are feeling relaxed and not stressed or tired. Ask for details</p>
<p>about objects/materials of desire, and what role you are expected to take in</p>
<p>the act. Maybe suggesting to take a weekend off and traveling if possible.</p>
<p>Going to a resort, a place you won&#8217;t be bothered and will have time to absorb</p>
<p>and explore the news.</p></div>
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<p>When you fully understand your partner&#8217;s fetish preferences, you will find it</p>
<p>much easier and natural to make a clear fair decision, either if it&#8217;s</p>
<p>something you want to be a part of, or not.</p>
<p>Remember we &#8220;all&#8221; change &#8220;a lot&#8221; throughout our lives. Believe it or not, in a</p>
<p>year or two from now, your own sexual likings may have changed drastically.</p>
<p>Things you would not dare to do now may become a pretty ordinary part of your</p>
<p>sexual life and your can get a great deal of pleasure from your partner&#8217;s</p>
<p>fetish.</p>
<p>If you decided not to take a part in your partner&#8217;s fetish, be sure to let</p>
<p>him/her know (be honest). Have a discussion about how he/she can live out</p>
<p>their fetish without you getting involved. It&#8217;s crucial to your relationship</p>
<p>that you respect your partner&#8217;s fetish, even if you have decided not to take</p>
<p>part of it. If you disapprove the fetish, you disapprove your partner. It is a</p>
<p>very important part of who they are.</p>
<p>To know your partner&#8217;s fetish is a very special gift! It&#8217;s like having a magic</p>
<p>wand. The wand will do nothing, if you just hide it away in your drawers. But</p>
<p>if you wave the wand, magic happens. If you practice a lot, miracles can</p>
<p>happen! It&#8217;s up to you!</p>
<p>Imagine how many people there would sell their soul to have a &#8220;magic wand&#8221; to</p>
<p>their partner&#8217;s pleasure! You already have yours, but the question isŠ do you</p>
<p>dare to use it or not?</p></div>
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